I will use the relational therapy to help you identify your past relational experiences and understand how they are affecting your current ones. For example as much as you want to be close with people you may be pushing them away without realizing it. I will use our therapeutic relationship or/and, if you are in group therapy, relationships with other group members, or if you are in a couple counseling the relationship with your partner to help you identify the role you play in your relationships, and to develop healthier and more effective ways to connect with people in your life.